The Unfiltered Truth: 7 Surprising Things Cher Has Said About Chaz Bono’s Transition, Career, And Their Complex 2025 Relationship

The enduring, complex relationship between Cher and her son, Chaz Bono, continues to be a subject of intense public fascination, especially as of late 2024 and into 2025. The iconic "Goddess of Pop" has never shied away from discussing her life, and her recent interviews and memoir excerpts offer a candid, often moving look at the journey she took to fully embrace Chaz, who transitioned from female to male starting in 2008. While their bond is now one of profound love and mutual respect, the path was not without its difficulties, a fact Cher has openly acknowledged, even as she proudly supports his latest career ventures and navigates new layers of family drama. This article dives into the most current and unfiltered statements Cher has made about Chaz, detailing the emotional struggle of a mother’s acceptance, his burgeoning career as a horror film producer, and the surprising drama surrounding his upcoming marriage.

Cher and Chaz Bono: A Dual Biography and Profile

The mother-son duo represents one of Hollywood’s most famous and groundbreaking families, with both Cher and Chaz forging their own paths in music, film, and activism.

Cher (Cherilyn Sarkisian)

• Born: May 20, 1946, El Centro, California.
• Parents: Georgia Holt (mother, actress/model) and John Paul Sarkisian (father, truck driver).
• Spouses: Sonny Bono (1964–1975), Gregg Allman (1975–1979).
• Children: Chaz Bono (with Sonny Bono) and Elijah Blue Allman (with Gregg Allman).
• Career Highlights: Dubbed the "Goddess of Pop" for a career spanning over six decades. She is one of the few artists to win an Academy Award (for *Moonstruck*), a Grammy Award, an Emmy Award, and three Golden Globes. Key works include the musical duo Sonny & Cher, the hit song "Believe," and films like *Silkwood* and *Mask*.

Chaz Bono (Chaz Salvatore Bono)

• Born: Chastity Sun Bono, March 4, 1969, Los Angeles, California.
• Parents: Cher and Sonny Bono.
• Transition: Began his gender transition in 2008 and legally changed his name and gender in 2010.
• Career Highlights: Author of three books, including the 2011 memoir *Transition: The Story of How I Became a Man*. He is a prominent LGBTQ+ rights advocate and an actor known for roles in *The Bold and the Beautiful*, *American Horror Story*, and the recent horror film *Little Bites*. He was the first openly transgender contestant on *Dancing with the Stars*.
• Current Partner: Engaged to Shara Blue Mathes.

The Emotional Journey: Cher’s Candid Confessions on Her Son’s Transition

Cher has been remarkably open about the initial difficulty she faced when Chaz began his transition, offering a perspective that many parents of transgender children can relate to. Her recent statements underscore the distinction between unconditional love for a child and the personal struggle to adapt to a profound change.

1. "It Was Difficult for Me, as a Mother"

In a recent, widely circulated interview, Cher admitted that the process of Chaz’s transition “was difficult for me” in the beginning. She clarified that this difficulty was not rooted in a lack of love or acceptance, but rather in the natural maternal instinct that initially struggled with the change. This candid admission highlights the emotional labor involved for family members, even those who are staunchly supportive. She confessed to having a difficult time with the name change, saying it was "a strange transition for a mother to go through."

2. The Power of Acceptance: "You Have to Go on the Journey"

Despite the initial struggle, Cher quickly moved to a place of full acceptance. She has stated that a parent must ultimately "go on the journey" with their child. The singer has become a vocal ally for the LGBTQ+ community, frequently speaking out on trans rights and expressing her fears for the community ahead of the 2024 US election. Her journey from initial confusion to becoming a fierce advocate provides a powerful narrative for topical authority on the subject of parental support for transgender individuals.

3. Navigating the Memoir: The "Chas" Compromise

In her highly anticipated new memoir, Cher had to address Chaz's early life, which involved using his birth name. To maintain respect and integrity, she reportedly had a detailed discussion with Chaz. He gave her his "blessing" to reference his deadname for the years covered in the book, allowing her to tell her complete story while still honoring his identity. She refers to him as "Chas" in the memoir, explaining that this was the name he went by during the years covered. This collaborative approach demonstrates a deep level of communication and respect in their current relationship.

Chaz’s Career Resurgence and the Red Carpet Reunions

While Cher’s musical career continues to thrive, Chaz Bono has been making significant strides in his own career, particularly in the horror genre. Cher has been a very visible and proud supporter of his recent work, demonstrating that their public bond is stronger than ever.

4. Cher’s Proud Support at the *Little Bites* Premiere

In a moment that made headlines in late 2024, Cher joined Chaz on the red carpet for the premiere of his new horror movie, *Little Bites*, at the Beyond Fest. Chaz not only has a supporting acting role in the film but is also credited as a producer. This public display of support for his work as an actor, producer, and writer (LSI keywords: *Little Bites*, Spider One, Shudder, horror film) shows Cher's commitment to his professional success. The film, directed by Spider One, has generated buzz for its unique horror-thriller premise.

5. Chaz’s Focus on Acting and Advocacy

Chaz Bono’s recent career has been heavily focused on acting, with appearances in other horror projects like *Bury the Bride* and *Big Baby*. His consistent work in the industry, combined with his high-profile advocacy, has cemented his status as a key figure in both Hollywood and the LGBTQ+ community. Cher often references his dedication to his craft and his work as an activist, using her platform to amplify his message.

The Family Drama: Uninvited to the Wedding and the Strained Relationship

Despite the public displays of affection and support, the mother-son relationship has recently been strained by private family matters, particularly surrounding Chaz’s personal life. The juxtaposition of their red carpet unity and the private turmoil makes for compelling, fresh news.

6. The Wedding Snub: Uninvited to the Ceremony

The most surprising and current piece of family drama involves Chaz’s upcoming wedding to his fiancée, Shara Blue Mathes. Reports circulated that Cher was allegedly "uninvited" to the ceremony. The relationship between Cher and Chaz's longtime partner, Mathes, is rumored to be strained, leading to Chaz and Mathes making the difficult decision to exclude Cher from the intimate event. This alleged snub highlights the ongoing, complex dynamics that persist beneath the surface of their public unity.

7. Chaz and Shara’s New Chapter: Settling Down

Amidst the wedding drama, Chaz and Shara Blue Mathes have been focused on building their life together. Recent reports confirm that the couple has moved into a new, $2.5 million mansion, signaling a serious and committed new chapter in their relationship. This move, and the impending wedding, underscore Chaz's commitment to his fiancée and his desire for a stable, private life, even as he remains in the public eye. The family drama surrounding the wedding is a clear indication that while Cher and Chaz have overcome the hurdles of the transition, new and challenging family dynamics continue to test their bond.