The highly publicized divorce between comedian Ali Wong and businessman Justin Hakuta is officially finalized as of May 2024, more than two years after their initial separation. The separation, which began quietly in April 2022, has become a central theme in Wong's recent work, offering fans a candid and hilarious look into the realities of modern co-parenting and dating after a long marriage. This article, updated in December 2025, dives into the complete timeline, the surprising details of their settlement, and the major revelations Wong shared in her latest Netflix special, *Single Lady*.
The split between the Emmy and Golden Globe winner and the former tech executive has been remarkably amicable, a testament to their dedication to raising their two young daughters. While the legal process cited "irreconcilable differences" as the cause, Wong has been open about the complex, often funny, reasons behind the end of their eight-year marriage, including the unexpected pressure of her skyrocketing career after stand-up specials like *Baby Cobra* and *Hard Knock Wife*.
Ali Wong and Justin Hakuta: Full Biography and Divorce Timeline
The relationship between the comedian and the entrepreneur was a frequent, and often hilarious, topic in Wong's early stand-up specials. Their partnership was a key part of her public persona, making the news of their divorce all the more surprising to fans.
Ali Wong (Alexandra Dawn Wong)
- Born: April 19, 1982, in San Francisco, California.
- Occupation: Comedian, Actress, Writer, Producer.
- Breakthrough Works: Netflix stand-up specials *Baby Cobra* (2016), *Hard Knock Wife* (2018), *Don Wong* (2022), and *Single Lady* (2024).
- Major Accolades: Won two Primetime Emmy Awards and three Golden Globe Awards for her lead role in the critically acclaimed series *Beef* (2023).
- Other Notable Projects: *Always Be My Maybe*, *Tuca & Bertie*, *Big Mouth*.
- Children: Two daughters, Mari Hakuta (b. 2015) and Nikki Hakuta (b. 2017).
Justin Hakuta
- Born: October 18, 1982, in the United States.
- Occupation: Entrepreneur, Technology Executive, Vice President of Product.
- Family Background: Son of Ken Hakuta, a Japanese-American inventor and television personality known as "Dr. Fad."
- Education: Attended Sidwell Friends School, Carnegie Mellon University (where he received a Fulbright scholarship), and Harvard Business School (MBA 2011).
- Current Role: Has reportedly scaled back intensive career commitments to focus on co-parenting.
The Divorce Timeline
- Marriage Date: November 2014.
- Official Separation Date: April 10, 2022.
- Divorce Filing Date: Ali Wong officially filed for divorce in December 2023, more than a year after the separation.
- Divorce Finalization Date: The divorce was legally finalized in May 2024 by a Los Angeles County judge.
- Grounds for Divorce: Irreconcilable differences.
The Prenup That Streamlined the Split and Co-Parenting Success
One of the most significant, yet least public, aspects of the divorce was the existence of a prenuptial agreement. This legal document, which Wong famously joked about in her stand-up, proved to be instrumental in keeping the proceedings private and amicable. The prenuptial agreement helped streamline the division of assets, preventing a lengthy and expensive public court battle, especially considering Wong’s massive professional success following her initial specials and the hit series *Beef*.
While the financial and custody details of the divorce settlement were not publicly disclosed, the couple has consistently emphasized their commitment to co-parenting their two daughters, Mari and Nikki. Justin Hakuta has been praised by Wong for his role as a dedicated co-parent, with the comedian noting that his support allows her to pursue her demanding career as a "non-traditional" mom. Their relationship has evolved from spouses to close friends and co-partners in raising their family, a modern approach that has drawn considerable praise.
5 Shocking and Candid Revelations from Ali Wong's 'Single Lady' Special
Ali Wong’s 2024 Netflix stand-up special, *Single Lady*, is a post-divorce masterpiece that directly addresses her new life, dating experiences, and the complex feelings surrounding the end of her marriage. The special, which premiered in October 2024, offers the freshest insights into her personal life. Here are the most candid revelations:
1. The Unexpected Freedom of Dating Bill Hader
Wong confirmed her on-again, off-again, and now seemingly on-again relationship with fellow comedian and actor Bill Hader. In *Single Lady*, she hilariously detailed the process of meeting Hader after her separation, noting the stark contrast between dating as a married person and dating as a newly single celebrity. She described the relationship as a "new adventure" that was made possible by the divorce.
2. The 'Irreconcilable Differences' Were Tied to Her Success
While the legal documents cited "irreconcilable differences," Wong’s comedy suggests the massive shift in their power dynamic and her career trajectory played a significant role. Her early specials were famous for joking about supporting her husband, a Harvard Business School graduate. As her career exploded with *Beef* and her stand-up tours, the reality of her being the primary breadwinner and her constant travel put immense strain on the traditional structure of their family life.
3. The Painful Reality of Telling the Children
Wong spoke with raw honesty about the difficulty of telling her two daughters, Mari and Nikki, that their parents were separating. She shared the emotional toll and the awkward, yet necessary, conversations required to explain the new co-parenting arrangement. Her material highlighted the challenge of maintaining a stable, loving environment while navigating a major life change.
4. The Hilarious Horror of First-Date Etiquette
A large section of *Single Lady* is dedicated to the awkwardness of re-entering the dating pool in her 40s. Wong recounted several hilarious, yet cringeworthy, dating scenarios, contrasting the formality of her initial courtship with Justin Hakuta—which included a prenuptial agreement—with the casual, confusing nature of modern dating apps and celebrity encounters. She joked about having to relearn social cues and expectations after nearly a decade of marriage.
5. The Divorce Finalization Was a Quiet Relief
The legal process took over two years from separation to finalization, with the paperwork being signed off in May 2024. Wong noted that while the initial separation was painful, the finalization brought a quiet sense of relief, allowing both her and Justin to fully move forward. She emphasized that despite the split, Justin remains one of her closest friends and a crucial partner in their shared life, demonstrating a remarkably mature and modern approach to divorce.
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